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Cera Wax Studio. Home of the Ouch-less Wax!

Cera4Last week, I had the pleasure of attending a bloggers night out event at Cera Wax Studio hosted by my friend Angelica of Angelica in the City.Cera5Cera3

Angelica had Cera Wax Studio in Bethesda, rockin! Music, drinks and all of the cutest/baddest blogger chicks in DC came to play at Cera!CeraCera6

Cera was nice enough to provide waxing during the party! I received an eyebrow wax and an Intern John “Vixen wax” (Brazilian Wax). Continue reading Cera Wax Studio. Home of the Ouch-less Wax!


The Edges & Protective Ponytail Tutorial

I love the heat of summer time but avoid a heat stroke I have to keep my hair out of the way!

If your 4-type hair is like mine, it can be nearly impossible to slick down your hair without it looking plain greasy. Here’s some quick tips on how I achieve the perfect edges and ponytails!

Start with freshly washed hair. – A fresh wash helps the hair lay down.  If your hair is pliable then you’ll need less product. Screen Shot 2016-07-25 at 5.50.09 PMScreen Shot 2016-07-25 at 5.49.33 PM

Use your favorite moisturizer. – To protect my hair in ponytails I use Jamaican Castor Oil. The style might be used for days so I make sure this style doesn’t lead to breakage.

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Grab Your Pomade or Gel – Stop everything you’re doing and pick up Murry’s Edge Wax! It lays 4-type hair.  It provides a hold that isn’t hard and my edges don’t look greasy & fizzy after one hour.Screen Shot 2016-07-25 at 5.40.05 PM

Create The Ponytail – Pick a spot on your head and make a ponytail. By creating two loose braids my thick hair goes into a ponytail more easily. Screen Shot 2016-07-25 at 5.40.45 PMScreen Shot 2016-07-25 at 5.41.41 PM

Tie Your Hair Down With  a Leg of a Stocking – Silk scarfs aren’t going to cut it.  Grab some old stockings, cut a leg of it off and tie it around your head = LAID.Screen Shot 2016-07-25 at 5.42.31 PMScreen Shot 2016-07-25 at 5.42.52 PM

Wrap ponytail with Hair Extensions (optional)- For the perfect Phony Pony I used Haute Kinky Hair – Haute Curls. I wrapped the hair extensions around my ponytail without taking out my braids. I also wrapped the hair extensions around the base of my ponytail to hide the tracks.

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Final Result


Other Looks I’ve Created with This Method:

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Let me know what you think of this tutorial and leave a comment below!




Hair Feature: Dachè Hair

IMG_1283I have been wearing Dachè Hair for a few weeks.  Russian course curly hair, that’s giving me life! Long story short: It’s quality hair and I LOVE IT!   The people over at Dachè made a lace wig unit for me and it’s been so convenient.IMG_1271



It was a medium tight curl and it brought all the boys to the yard! It’s seen in the 10 Weave Commandments video. IMG_2401 IMG_2400

The reason I say it’s high quality is because it met the following criteria: it didn’t shed, it didn’t tangle and it didn’t mat!

I went to the beach and had many days at the pool in my Dachè wig unit, and it still looks fabulous! IMG_1705IMG_1712

I also wore my Dache wig at the Beyonce Formation World Tour

A video posted by Naila (@theweavewhisperer) on Jun 6, 2016 at 1:52pm PDT


Visit DacheHair.com and tell them The Weave Whisperer sent you!IMG_2478

My Life Changing Facial at the Center For Plastic Surgery!

CPS2While I’m not opposed to a little nip and tuck,  I know God already took his TIMMMEEE when he created me. So, I don’t need plastic surgery.

However, I have not worn makeup since my trip to Center for Plastic Surgery in Annandale, VA. When I walked out of the building I felt like my skin had new life!CPS22

Here’s what happened:


I opted for the Fire  & Ice Facial. Baby, let me tell you, CPS exceeded all of my expectations!  The Fire & Ice Facial is a medical grade facial, just a step below a chemical peel.This facial is great for anyone who battles acne or other skin ailments. My aesthetician , Marily Salls was amazing!’CPS4First they start off with the fire mask, which resurfaces your face by removing old, dry skin. It has a warming, tingling sensation and smelled like cookies to me! Next they apply the soothing ice mask. This mask uses hyaluronic acid, aloe vera, green tree extract, and peppermint to hydrate the skin and calm it down.CPS3At the end of my session I saw instant results! My complexion has been evened and brightened!I highly recommend this facial. The procedure goes for $150.00 and is well worth the money.CPS9Since this treatment I have been following up with CPS’s recommended skincare regimen products and boy do I feel beautiful! I use a retinol eye cream, a super serum, cooling serum and a great SPF!CPS6IMG_7091

I felt a boost of confidence after this facial. As a beauty blogger you’re always faced with wearing a beat face. But now days I think my bare skin looks JUST fine!Cps25



The Philadelphia Natural Hair Show

IMG_1374 (1)I had the honor of being a panelist at the 2016 Philadelphia Natural Hair Show! The topic was  Black Women & The Perception of Beauty within Media! Boy, was it a lively discussion! Colorism, texture discrimination, weaves vs natural hair were some of the topics that got the naturalista’s charged up!

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Side Eyes & Shade

The discussion was the inspiration for my video 5 Clap Backs for Weave Haters. I wanted to push the message that no one is less natural for wearing weave, which was a misconception during the panel.



After the panel I dived right into the festivities! The Philadelphia Hair Show was packed with vendors selling African print clothing, black owned hair care products and natural textured hair companies. I was in heaven! Screen Shot 2016-05-23 at 11.11.13 PMScreen Shot 2016-05-23 at 11.28.46 PM

Companies like Venice Hair Extensions and Runway Curls had their booths ready and open for business. I even ran into my internet friend in my head, Wonder Curl!

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I can’t wait until next years event! Did you attend the 2016 Philadelphia Natural Hair Show? Comment Below!IMG_1355

Honeybee Garden ALL Organic Cosmetics

IMG_6899Have you ever wondered what kind of stuff is in makeup? Has your face ever burned or tingled after applying liquid foundation? *raises hand*

I was super happy to have the opportunity to use Honeybee Gardens Cosmetics. They are an ALL natural,  ALL organic line of makeup and skincare. Everything is tested to certify that all of the ingredients are in fact all natural and organic. This is perfect for anyone with skin allergies!


Beauty starts within! You have to mindful of what makeup is seeping through your pores. Honeybee Garden’s foundation gave me full coverage with a glow. Natural but still BEAT! The lip liner was smooth and gave me a beauty pink color. The lip gloss and it’s yummy scent topped it off for a long lasting gloss! IMG_6882

The foundation I used was the Pressed Mineral Powder (Sultana) $10.99. Lips: Fantasy JobaColors  Lip Liner $8.99. Luscious Lip Gloss Viper $11.99


Please check out Honeybee Garden Cosmetics and let me know if you love it!

xoxo Naila

3 Ways to Use a Straightening Brush

1. You Can Finally Throw Out Your Hot Comb

Ok, well maybe you can just put the hot comb in the drawer. But a straightening brush is a great alternative to hot combs and flat irons! Straightening combs ceramic technology makes it a little easier on your hair and speeds up the straightening time. Make sure you’re using a good heat protect product to minimize any heat damage.Screen Shot 2016-03-25 at 5.13.59 PMScreen Shot 2016-03-25 at 5.16.17 PM
2. It Can Give You A Blow Out Look

No, a straightening brush will not give a person with 4-type hair bone straight locks. However, it can give a fabulous textured blow out look! If you just want to be a disco queen or just stretch out your hair, a straightening brush might be for you!IMG_6638IMG_6635

3. Stretch Out Your Natural Hair

I wanted a big, long braid out and I used my straightening brush as a way to elongate my braid out. I used the brush on a low setting to stretch out my natural hair and braided my hair with Every Strand- Coconut & Shea Butter Curling Creme. Results: Instagram worthy hair!

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A was given a straightening brush from Care MEIt sells for $39.99IMG_6649

Have you used straightening brushes before? Leave a comment below with your experience!



Real Talk on Kinkistry Natural Hair Extensions

Another natural hair brand…Is it any good? My answer: YES!

I loved this hair and I recommend it to anyone looking for a natural look!

  1. It’s Low Maintenance – The curl pattern doesn’t need a lot of products to make it look good. All I used was the steam from the shower to revive my curl pattern.
  2. The Texture is Soft and Manageable – I hate when hair gets hard! Even after weeks of wear, Kinkistry Hair stayed soft. There was absolutely NO tangling and it had minimal shedding.
  3. It Has Lasting Power – There was no hardening of the curl texture, no matting and little maintenance needed for revive the curl pattern. Those factors spoke volumes to me about the longevity of Kinkistry Hair Extensions.  If you’re not constantly putting your hands in your hair, it’s going to last!

I’m wearing three bundles of  Kinkistry Koilistics Extensions in 22”, 24”, 24”.

I used Eco-Gel and Jamaican Castor Oil for my  two-strand leave out. It worked to perfection!

Use Code ‘WWHISPER10‘ for 10% off of your purchase of Kinkistry Hair! If you buy Kinkistry Hair tag me on Instagram so I can show you some LOVE! IMG_0715 IMG_0648 IMG_0709IMG_5946IMG_5934

I was given Kinkistry hair for free, however all the opinions are mine.



5 Rules for Buying Weave at the Hair Store

1. If They’re Rude…LEAVE the store

Too many times, the African American community’s insecurities are capitalized on without any respect for the Black dollar. We all know that many people of color purchase weave . I suggest only buying products from a place that respects your buying power!Screen Shot 2016-02-13 at 7.46.00 AM

2. Ask Them to Take the Hair Out of the Package.

You need to feel how the hair flows through your fingers. Can you easily run your fingers from root to tip? Does it tangle when you shake it? If the hair doesn’t flow theres a chance the cuticles are running in different directions, thus limiting the shelf life of the hair extensions. You’ll probably get a good 2.5 weeks out of it at most. Also, if it tangles just from shaking it, you can only imagine what it going to do on the back of your head.Screen Shot 2016-02-13 at 7.43.59 AM

3.  Find Natural Light to View the Hair

Hair stores have horrible lighting. The fluorescent lighting makes the hair look a different color when it would seem in the sunlight. I suggest holding the hair up to a window or somewhere that you can see the hair exactly how it is. Hair stores seldom have a return policy so check everything before buying.Screen Shot 2016-02-13 at 7.43.18 AM

4.  Check Online First

Have an idea of what you want to buy before you go to the store and head online to check the prices. If you check the online prices you’ll be able to see if the price in the store is worth it.Screen Shot 2016-02-13 at 7.44.42 AM

5. Watch The Weave Whisperer!

I have the skinny on the best wigs and weaves in the industry. So don’t forget to check me out! You can also email me at TheWeaveWhisperer@gmail.com with questions. Just add the word QUESTION to the subject header and I’ll respond as soon as possible.Screen Shot 2016-02-22 at 9.43.10 AM


Naila Carter

Hair Perception vs Reality

I might be glamorous in public but behind closed doors I’m every scarf, cornrow wearing woman! There is an unrealistic expectation of women. Good hair takes preparation! We didn’t just wake up like this!Screen Shot 2016-02-06 at 1.36.54 PMIMG_0411This video is for those who don’t know everything it takes to be beautiful!

I used these fabulous line of hair products, Hydratherma Naturals to complete my braid-out! IMG_0424These products were gentle and moisturizing. I was really happy with  my braid-out using Hydratherma Naturals! IMG_0439IMG_0446

Details: SLS Free Moisture Plus Hair Cleanser $20.99 Amino Plus Protein Deep Conditioning Treatment $17.99 Aloe Curl Enhancing Twisting Cream- $15.99 

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The wig used in this video was from a local beauty supply  store and I’m in LOVE with it! It’s online sale is coming soon and I will share details! IMG_5303IMG_5283

I hope you guys could relate to this video! Thanks for watching and make you FOLLOW me on YouTube, because that where all my crazy are!

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